The short story “Girl,” by Jamaica Kincaid seems to be a list of instructions

The short story “Girl,” by Jamaica Kincaid seems to be a list of instructions given from a Mother to her daughter. These instructions are relevant to topics such as household chores, manners, cooking, social conduct, and relationships.

In “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been”, the main character is a teenage girl. Her relationship with her mother could be described as “strained” or certainly not ideal.
Compare and contrast how these two relationships are different. no sources need thanks